WHAT SOME WOMEN GO THROUGH DURING PREGNANCY – HMMMMM

Hi

Regarding the pregnant woman whose husband doesn’t help emotionally or with house chores.

I went through same this year. Alhamdulillah, my boy will be 4 weeks tomorrow. I was not ready for a second child now because I was seriously searching for a job, but the pregnancy came anyways and I kept it. Because there was no money, I started antenatal in my 5th month. He gave me money for antenatal only once till I gave birth. The rest of my hospital visits, I funded it.

I was doing a Teller training at one of the banks in Greater Accra, even though I was not on salary, the Tellers there were giving me something for transport and that was my savings too. From which I go to the hospital and cook during weekends. I will leave the house before 6am and sometimes come home after 9pm when they sent me to one of their branches . I will come and meet dirty dishes (from morning till evening ), dusty room etc and I will have to do all that before I go to bed and sometimes even cook for him to eat at that time.

He isn’t working currently but claims he is doing his business via online and also having his meetings through phone calls. What he help with was bathing the little girl for school and he will watch Tv and sleep the whole day till I come back from work. I saved money and bought all my hospital list items. Not even 10gh from him to buy diaper or baby dress. I did everything by my self. I was always stressed from work, and weekends too I have to fetch water, wash and prepare stews and soups for the whole week use of which I don’t even eat from.(and I do that with my money). 2 weeks to my due date, I took leave from the recruitment company that posted me to the bank.

That was then I had enough rest. My due date was past so I had to be admitted and induced, thankfully, the induction was successful and I had my boy on the 17th of last month. When we were discharged, we could not go home ooo because he was not having money to pay. We had to sleep there till the next morning before his friends sent him money for us to go home. We had no food at home when we were discharged, the 800gh they paid me after I did some Relieving duties was what we depended on till my mom brought me some food items.(God bless them for them for us). Tell that mom she can make it.

She should just tell her mind that she in this alone, and she will make it by his grace. Heerr, my boy is very strong ooo😁 and he’s growing fast too and healthy. Sorry for the long message. I can’t comment on the post because some family members and friends are on your page as well but you can share it for her to read and be motivated and believe in God that she can do it

Sally’s Advice… If your husband is loving and caring… Hold him well😊😊😊💕💕😍😍😍

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MIDWIFE WHAT BROUGHT ME HERE? – ECLAMPSIA ALERT

These were the words of a client . She opened her eyes and she was in the hospital

She was walking to a shop and that’s all she remembers

In between that time and the time she opened her eyes had to be communicated to her. She had no idea.

Her blood pressure and protein has been normal through out her pregnancy journey

She experienced headaches in the morning which she thought was part of the pregnancy

She didn’t pay so much attention to it

What happened next was a fall which came with fits like that of an epileptic patient

At the hospital , BP and urine protein were all present and high

She suffered eclampsia. Eclampsia sets in when you have pre eclampsia and it’s poorly controlled or not monitored

If diagnosed of pre eclampsia pay attention to the impending signs of eclampsia and report immediately

Severe and persistent Headaches

Epigastric pain

High BP more than 140/90 mmhg

Flashes of light

When you have the strong urge to vomit due to high BP

Report early if you don’t feel well

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WHAT REDUCES A BABYS WEIGHT IN UTERO?

In utero it is expected that baby gains some weight till birth. The estimated normal weight for a new born baby is 2.5 to 3.5 kg.

It’s important to note that some factors can cause your baby to have less weight. Let’s discuss them

  1. Poor nutrition. If the mum does not eat a well Balanced diet with the right amount of nutrients it can cause the baby to have less weight than expected
  2. Pre eclampsia. If you have pre eclampsia and it’s not properly managed it can affect the weight of the baby. Baby will be smaller than expected
  3. Infections. Infections like malaria ,urinary tract infection etc can affect the baby negatively if not treated promptly
  4. Genetics can also play a role in the weight of your baby
  5. Poor lifestyle choices. In general the outcome of your pregnancy can be affected by your Lifestyle. Avoid unprescribed medications, exercise regularly and maintain strict personal hygiene

Always work with your doctor if you have concerns about your baby’s weight gain

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HOW TO MAKE YOUR PREGNANCY EASY

Making pregnancy more comfortable and manageable involves focusing on physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Here are some tips to help:

  1. Stay Physically Active • Exercise Regularly: Low-impact activities like walking, swimming, and prenatal yoga improve circulation, reduce stress, and help with sleep.
    • Stretching: Gentle stretching can ease back pain and reduce muscle tension.
    • Pelvic Floor Exercises: Kegels strengthen the pelvic muscles, which can help during labor and recovery.
  2. Eat a Balanced Diet • Nutrient-Rich Foods: Focus on fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean protein, and healthy fats.
    • Hydration: Drink plenty of water to stay hydrated and reduce swelling.
    • Prenatal Vitamins: Take as prescribed by your healthcare provider to ensure you’re getting essential nutrients like folic acid, iron, and calcium.
    • Small, Frequent Meals: Helps with nausea and heartburn.
  3. Manage Common Discomforts • For Nausea: Ginger tea, crackers, or small, frequent meals can help.
    • For Heartburn: Avoid spicy and greasy foods, and eat smaller portions.
    • For Swelling: Elevate your feet, wear compression socks, and reduce salt intake.
    • For Back Pain: Use a pregnancy pillow for sleeping and maintain good posture.
  4. Prioritize Rest • Sleep Support: Use a pregnancy pillow for comfort and sleep on your left side to improve circulation.
    • Short Naps: Take breaks when needed to combat fatigue.
    • Create a Routine: Stick to regular sleep and relaxation schedules.
  5. Stay Emotionally Healthy • Connect with Loved Ones: Share your thoughts and concerns with family and friends.
    • Seek Support Groups: Join prenatal classes or online groups to connect with other expectant parents.
    • Practice Relaxation: Try meditation, deep breathing, or mindfulness.
  6. Regular Prenatal Care • Attend Appointments: Keep up with regular checkups to monitor your health and your baby’s development.
    • Ask Questions: Don’t hesitate to bring up concerns with your healthcare provider.
  7. Prepare for Birth • Educate Yourself: Learn about labor, delivery, and postpartum care through books, classes, or healthcare providers.
    • Plan Ahead: Create a birth plan and discuss it with your doctor or midwife.
  8. Listen to Your Body • Take Breaks: Don’t overexert yourself; rest when needed.
    • Adjust as Needed: Modify activities and routines as your pregnancy progresses.

If you experience severe discomfort or unusual symptoms, consult your healthcare provider immediately.

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RETAINED PRODUCT OF CONCEPTION

After the birth of your baby, the placenta has to be delivered

It has to come out complete or whole

The midwife checks to make sure all the lobes, membranes have all been delivered.

lf anything remains in there it can cause infection, as well as severe bleeding

It prevents the uterus to contract

If your suddenly have heavy bleeding after birth, kindly report to your midwife or doctor immediately

Further investigations and interventions will be done to prevent further bleeding

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A TRUE KNOT UMBILICAL CORD – YOUR POST SAVED ME

I wish to share a testimony on how you saved me last Friday about a post you shared on Facebook

I read a post you shared on Facebook last Friday about the causes of maternal death in Ghana and the one that strike me was *delay to health facilities*

So my story….

Before reading your post, my water broke on Friday at 3:45am

My husband was concerned and asked me to go the hospital immediately but I said I will wait and see how labor progressed

I kept busying myself during the day and even prepared light soup for fufu koraa before going

My husband kept calling to ask if I had left but said no severally. He had to report me to my mother in-law

It still took about an hour to decide to go to the hospital after reporting me. While waiting for my cassava to boil I saw your post on Facebook and it strike me to start heading to the hospital

I reported to the hospital at 2pm

I was checked in n had dilated 2cm.

As at 10am on Saturday, contractions had not begun and I was induced. 1 hour into induction, pain was unbearable but with shorter contractions

Fetal heart rate was checked and there were several readings of fetal distress

An immediate C-section was done and baby was removed safely but with a complete knotted umbilical cord (meaning he was gradually been deprived of oxygen and nutrients)

When this happens blood supply to the baby is cut off. It leads to oxygen deprivation and subsequently fetal death.

Imagine if I had stayed longer waiting for contractions before coming…..my story would have been different

I never miss reading them

God bless you for your time and knowledge sharing

Its your ministry, may the Lord help you to grow with it. AMEN

SALLY- ALL GLORY TO GOD!

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CAN A PREGNANT WOMAN TAKE HONEY?

Yes a pregnant woman can take honey. It can be used when you have sore throat or coughing. It can also be used a sweetner in place of sugar in your tea or beverages.

But not recommended for kids below 1 year as their bodies may not be able to tolerate or process the bacteria it contains. That can lead to a condition called botulism in children below a year.

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IS IT NORMAL TO ALWAYS FEEL HUNGRY DURING PREGNANCY?

Yes during pregnancy its normal to feel hungry within very short intervals

You should not wait to get hungry before eating

Your tummy should never be empty

When you get hungry, nausea also increases and you become very uncomfortable.

Always eat on time and take fruits, vegetables and small chops in between your meals to stay healthy.

Speak to your midwife or doctor if you have issues with your nutrition.

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KNOWNING YOUR MENSTRUAL CYCLE

🔴Day and year of your first menstruation, known as menarche

🔴 First day of your last menses

🔴How long It lasted.

🔴What’s your menstrual cycle is. Is It 28 days,30, 35 days or……

🔴Its important to also document all these and also your last menstruation for ladies getting close to menopause.

Knowing these can save you from a lot of issues . Eg when pregnant or sick and so many more.

Doctors use this information every time a woman visits the hospital

In Fact if you report to the hospital with even a headache your doctor will ask. So do document or keep at the back of your mind.

Kindly share with other ladies .

Share this with every new mum to know!!!

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NOSE BLEEDING DURING PREGNANCY

Midwife Sally why do I have nose bleeding during pregnancy ?

Nosebleeds are common during pregnancy, primarily due to hormonal changes. Increased levels of estrogen and progesterone during pregnancy lead to more blood flow, which can make blood vessels in the nose more sensitive and prone to rupture. Additionally, the mucous membranes in the nose can become swollen, leading to dryness and irritation, which further increases the likelihood of nosebleeds.

Other factors that may contribute to nosebleeds in pregnancy include:

  • Increased blood volume: During pregnancy, blood volume can increase by up to 50%, putting more pressure on blood vessels.
  • Dry air or dehydration: Dry air (especially in winter) and dehydration can dry out nasal passages, making them more susceptible to bleeding.
  • Frequent colds or sinus congestion: These are common during pregnancy and can make nosebleeds more likely, especially if a woman blows her nose frequently.
  • Elevated blood pressure: Some women experience increased blood pressure during pregnancy, which can also contribute to nosebleeds.

To avoid nose bleeds , stay hydrated, avoid nose picking and also stay in a room that is well ventilated

Also know that ones in a while high blood pressure can cause nose bleeding. It’s important to check your blood pressure if you experience nose bleeding

Although nosebleeds are usually harmless, if a pregnant woman experiences frequent or heavy nosebleeds, it’s best to consult a healthcare provider to rule out any underlying issues.

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