WHAT SOME WOMEN GO THROUGH DURING PREGNANCY - HMMMMM

Regarding the pregnant woman whose husband doesn’t help emotionally or with house chores.

I went through same this year. Alhamdulillah, my boy will be 4 weeks tomorrow. I was not ready for a second child now because I was seriously searching for a job, but the pregnancy came anyways and I kept it. Because there was no money, I started antenatal in my 5th month. He gave me money for antenatal only once till I gave birth. The rest of my hospital visits, I funded it.

I was doing a Teller training at one of the banks in Greater Accra, even though I was not on salary, the Tellers there were giving me something for transport and that was my savings too. From which I go to the hospital and cook during weekends. I will leave the house before 6am and sometimes come home after 9pm when they sent me to one of their branches . I will come and meet dirty dishes (from morning till evening ), dusty room etc and I will have to do all that before I go to bed and sometimes even cook for him to eat at that time.

He isn’t working currently but claims he is doing his business via online and also having his meetings through phone calls. What he help with was bathing the little girl for school and he will watch Tv and sleep the whole day till I come back from work. I saved money and bought all my hospital list items. Not even 10gh from him to buy diaper or baby dress. I did everything by my self. I was always stressed from work, and weekends too I have to fetch water, wash and prepare stews and soups for the whole week use of which I don’t even eat from.(and I do that with my money). 2 weeks to my due date, I took leave from the recruitment company that posted me to the bank.

That was then I had enough rest. My due date was past so I had to be admitted and induced, thankfully, the induction was successful and I had my boy on the 17th of last month. When we were discharged, we could not go home ooo because he was not having money to pay. We had to sleep there till the next morning before his friends sent him money for us to go home. We had no food at home when we were discharged, the 800gh they paid me after I did some Relieving duties was what we depended on till my mom brought me some food items.(God bless them for them for us). Tell that mom she can make it.

She should just tell her mind that she in this alone, and she will make it by his grace. Heerr, my boy is very strong ooo and he’s growing fast too and healthy. Sorry for the long message. I can’t comment on the post because some family members and friends are on your page as well but you can share it for her to read and be motivated and believe in God that she can do it